When Money Needs More Than Skill Building

I’m going to guess that money — while important to you — doesn’t feel like a steady force in your life.

You’ve probably done your best to figure it out. You’ve read the books, tried the spreadsheets, and worked hard to be responsible — pricing your work fairly, staying on top of your numbers, and doing what you can to “be good” with money, whatever that has meant in your world.

And yet, even with all that effort, something is tender and unresolved. Maybe you hesitate every time you go to send an invoice. Maybe you feel a rush of shame when someone brings up profit margins or taxes. Or maybe you’re simply tired of pretending you’re not overwhelmed, even though on paper everything should be fine.

If that’s where you are, you’re most definitely in good company.

It’s why I created Get Right With Money® — a 9-week program for women who are craving a different way to relate to money, one that honors both the practical and the deeply personal.

Still, you might be reading through the program and thinking: This seems a little too woo. I need real, grounded, practical help.

That hesitation deserves more than a quick answer.

You’re Not Wrong to Be Cautious

There’s a good reason this question comes up. Most of us weren’t raised to approach money with relational curiosity. We were taught it’s math, logic, and responsibility — and if it felt hard or confusing, the story often became that we were the problem.

Add to that spiritual business spaces that frame everything as mindset or manifestation, and it makes sense that you’d be wary. Being told to “trust the universe” when what you actually need is help understanding your numbers can feel dismissive at best.

So no, you’re not wrong to question this. You’re being thoughtful. You’re paying attention to what you need, and that discernment is a strength — not a block.

This Isn’t About “Good Vibes” — It’s About Safety

When I talk about the nervous system, embodiment, or energy, I’m not talking about vision boards or bypassing reality. What I see, again and again, is that many so-called money problems are actually safety problems.

The freeze that shows up when you try to raise your rates.
The dread when you try to check your balance.
The guilt around receiving more than you feel comfortable with.

These aren’t things you can fix by being more disciplined, thinking positively, or downloading a better system. They live in the body — in conditioned patterns around survival, worth, and protection.

That’s why this work includes structure and somatic support. Not to teach you what to do, but to help your system feel safe enough to listen. When regulation enters the picture, right action becomes possible — and sustainable.

As a Former CPA — Practicality Is in My Bones

This work is not about teaching you how to do money “correctly,” or handing you a new set of skills to master. It’s about creating the conditions where your own wisdom can come back online.

When money is tangled with fear, shame, or old wounding, even the most practical advice can feel inaccessible — not because you’re incapable, but because your system is busy trying to protect you. In those moments, action isn’t guided by clarity. It’s guided by survival.

Get Right With Money focuses on helping you regulate and gently release that wounding, so your relationship with money is no longer organized around threat. As that happens, something natural tends to emerge: a steadier sense of self, a wider perspective, and an increased capacity to listen inwardly.

From that place, people often know what their next steps are. For some, that means choosing to learn concrete skills. For others, it means hiring support, changing structures, or letting go of approaches that were never a good fit. The direction isn’t prescribed here — it’s revealed from within.

The confidence and peace that come from this work don’t come from having all the answers. They come from trusting yourself to meet money without bracing, and from having the internal steadiness to respond rather than react.

Both Intuition and Structure

You don’t belong in rigid, hyper-masculine financial spaces — but you don’t want to float in abstraction either.

You want something real. Something grounded. Something humane.

Lasting change lives at the intersection of self-trust and grounded support. When your nervous system is supported, your thinking becomes clearer. When your energy is grounded, your capacity to take action becomes more accessible. And when your relationship with money shifts, the rest of your life begins to reorganize too.

It doesn’t have to be either/or. Here, it’s both.

Money Is a Relationship

I once worked with a woman who cried nearly every time she looked at her numbers. Not because she didn’t care, but because it felt like too much — too much pressure, too much shame, too much fear.

After we created enough safety for her to look, her experience began to change. She didn’t suddenly love spreadsheets, but she did begin meeting her finances with clarity instead of dread.

That kind of change doesn’t come from tips or tricks. It comes from being met where you are, and then being gently guided forward.

If You’re Still Unsure

That hesitation you’re feeling makes sense. This work asks something different of you — not to try the same thing again (but harder), but to slow down and be honest about what’s no longer working.

If you feel a pull toward this, even alongside the questions, I invite you to listen.

You’re welcome to learn more about Get Right With Money®. I would love to support you.