Merriam-webster tells me that the word abundance is in the top 1% of words that are searched. The official definition of abundance that Merriam-Webster gives us follows:
This word, this idea is the cornerstone of what the women I work with say they truly want.
An abundance of clients.
An abundance of clarity.
An abundance of love.
An abundance of experiences.
An abundance of money.
An abundance of safety.
An abundance of beauty.
In fact, take a moment right now (I'll wait, I promise) to write down what you want to experience in abundance.
Take a moment with your list - some of the items on your list are likely things that you have experienced or are currently experiencing in your life. Some of the things on your list are things you are likely working toward or actively wishing were part of your life.
If there are things on your list that you are currently experiencing, do you stand in awe and gratitude that your life is so full and rich with exactly what you want? If there are things you are actively seeking, do your actions on a daily basis take you closer to that reality?
It's okay to be honest - if the answer is no, you are not alone.
Instead of potentially getting judgy with yourself, please be kind. You are human and in the western world, it is not unusual to have abundance, or have the ability to create abundance, and to not really experience it. So with compassion and curiosity, let's get real. There are three big reasons you don't experience abundance.
Challenging societal assumptions and healing our own scarcity wounding is tender (hard) work. However, one of my favorite phrases (I wish I knew where it originated) is you must choose your hard. Living in scarcity and not pursuing what you truly desire or denying yourself the experience of abundance, or not growing the business you really want to build -- all of those things are hard. However, if these are the experiences of abundance that you want to have, it's debilitating to deny yourself just because it is challenging to heal and to say yes to the life you truly desire.
So please, sister, choose the hard that errs on the side of challenging the assumptions and narratives that keep you in a state of scarcity. For you, yes, but also for the world you wish to live in.
Let's discuss the meaningful, audacious work of embracing and living into your vision for yourself, your work, and the world. Book your 30-minute Discovery Session.
I am dedicated to supporting you as you come into right relationship with money, heal the scarcity wound, and claim peace, power, and freedom. I can't wait to see what you do, sister!
Your time is now. Let's do this.